This is a Happy time for me!  Cause this is a time when we natives take our first born and teach them to change and become who we are and our teachings.  For us it's not a curse but, are born with it.  We are true..My son just turned 16, and for our bloodline is that we the fathers teach our first borns the rules of change and loyality. And tonight teaching him to change tonight is an honor, and for me is the last time i change.  I"m proud of my first born son, what my father taught me...i'm going to teach and instruct him also. Into the Mountains we go.  So, Enjoy tonight fellow brothers and sisters!