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#576 2012-07-03 06:26:42

ShadyHowl
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

I'm so laid back I'm horizontal.


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#577 2012-07-03 18:03:13

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Basically maybe once or twice there's been bleeding, but i dont have an anger problem im really all laid back just lately ive been all tensed up

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#578 2012-07-04 02:17:18

WolfVanZandt
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

If you bite people when they don't want to be bit because you're "tensed up", you have an anger problem.

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#579 2012-07-04 05:15:30

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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Yeah in general I wouldn't say making someone bleed once or twice is the hallmark of a laid back person.


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#580 2012-07-05 00:00:05

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

-_- i dont bit. i did once but that was like what second grade lol but like you said it has to do with my violent dreams right? so how do i stop it?

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#581 2012-07-05 03:04:47

WolfVanZandt
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

I don't know. I never stopped mine - maybe because I enjoyed them. They never got personal and it was sort of like going to a movie - except I was in it.

If it is frustration dreams, reducing your frustration should reduce the dreams. Try relaxation therapy or  meditation.

As a shaman, I've helped people get control of nightmares. Do you have any shamans around? If you have any psychologists/counselors that you trust, they may be able to help. Personally, I prefer gestalt psychology for dream work.

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#582 2012-07-05 14:41:29

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Yea i see a counselor like once a month but i dont trust people really easily

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#583 2012-07-11 07:14:49

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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

hey im new and been through and slightly escalating in each of those categories you have explained each day and im won7dering if im ok

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#584 2012-07-12 01:46:18

WolfVanZandt
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

You know, if something is bothering you, you aren't okay. You have a problem that needs to be solved, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you're crazy, or even sick. It may just mean you have a problem - like a stopped up toilet or a tax audit is a problem.

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#585 2012-07-13 03:32:59

kyto
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

i ment will i be ok kuz its many different changes at one time and i have look for an alternative explanation not even docs could tell me whats wrong they had me on pills that didnt work. my family member told me that i would be ok but i wanna know what could happen

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#586 2012-07-13 06:36:55

ShadyHowl
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

I think your problem is mostly due to puberty.


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#587 2012-07-13 14:08:14

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

So just one other thing if i were to feel like shifting what should i do let it happen or hold it back ?

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#588 2012-07-13 21:14:06

lupinealchemist
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

I think holding it back may potentially be dangerous. What do you think, WVZ?

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#589 2012-07-13 21:41:50

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

So than what am i suppose to do?

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#590 2012-07-14 03:47:32

WolfVanZandt
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Well, there's a difference between "holding back a shift" and "repressing the wereside". You don't want to be in the center of a shopping mall and go trotting on all fours down the midway, howling at the top of your lungs. So if that's going to happen, hold it back until you can let it out in safer surroundings. You want the wereside to be part of your life, but you don't want it to get you arrested.

My wereside was always pretty well adapted to public life so I didn't much worry about it but I've never held it in at all. It grew up with me. What you want is to allow the wereside as much exposure as possible without jeopardizing yourself. Balance is needed; integrity is ideal.

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#591 2012-07-15 22:21:50

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Okay so how do i do that

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#592 2012-07-16 01:06:28

WolfVanZandt
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

You're going to have to tell me a lot more about your life situation than you have for me to answer that question - or you can figure it out yourself. How adapted is your wereside already? Do you have any people you can safely shift around? Are you urban or rural? Do you live in a family or alone? How old are you? What part of the world do you live in? etc. etc.

For balance, you figure out when and where you can manifest your wereside most safely. For integrity, you come too terms with your wereside and, that, I can't possibly tell you how to do, certainly not over the Internet.

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#593 2012-07-16 15:16:54

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Not that adapted.
Nobody that i can shift around.
Urban.
Crazy family.
16
U.s.
I live in a city not big not small i know almost everyone n i dont know where it be a good place to shift i dont wanna accidentally shift

Anything else you need to now?

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#594 2012-07-16 18:00:21

WolfVanZandt
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Not really. And there's not much I can tell you without being there and part of things. I asked the questions to help you brainstorm. You're going to have to navigate the terrain yourself.

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#595 2012-07-16 23:57:55

sukiinlove
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Re: Am I a Werewolf/Therian?

Thanks so much for the help

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