Rarely is any label correct. That's why we use general terms.
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True, True.
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Yeah, I know... I guess I'm getting a little obsessive about it, but it's new, exciting, and figures me out!
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Ok well I wish you luck friend.
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Same here, just don't kill yourself over it.
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Of course I wouldn't! That would defeat the purpose! XD
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Hmm, Ace has a point Vin.
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Well if you get technical, then my statement makes no logical sense, but there is more than just physical death, such as mental, or spiritual if you were to push two hard when in fact your not ready to find what your pushing for. That isn't to say don't push, just be careful of the give and take and if it seems to much pressure to let off the gas as it were.
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Why not go until I figure it out? Any leeway would only slow the process and... well let's be honest, irritate me more...
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The mind and spirit can only take so much at once. Pushing to hard can end up breaking both. Besides there's no quick way. It will inevitably take time.
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Oh, you can push, just stay aware of your pressure is all I'm saying, as long as you know your limits and stay cautious then you should be just fine while you push.
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Nice tension breaker though. Lol.
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XD
But if I push hard and it works, and suddenly everything clicks into place, then I earned it! It'd be so much more satisfying if it was my own work that brought it to my attention...
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Just remember what we've said Ace.
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I know, I know.... I'm not so hard headed as to think that 'I know it all' or anything. I just don't wanna miss my opportunity, you know?
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.............. Oddly enough yes.
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Oh, good then! I'll talk to you all when I figure it out!
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Good Luck, Stay Safe, and Watch out for Psycho computers who lie about the Cake.
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I love Portal.
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"I'm Making A Note Here."
Good Luck
It's hard to overstate my reservations
Soul Searching
Is such a fantastic thing
Just be careful not to singe
But remember there is no sense crying over every block
eventually it will fall, but when the time is right........
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"Huge Success"
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I love that song.
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As for your descriptors, haven't you known Mainstreamers that they describe perfectly (I have), which is why I say they're just personality factors. They're not unique to Therians. They're not even unique to the theriotypes you ascribe them to. For instance, only a small subset of dogs are only loyal to one person at a time. Most develop loyalty to groups of people.
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Ugh, then I'm back to square one. The rest of the stuff is too vague: biting, licking, growling, barking, and awkward urges (involving chasing and eating animals).
It's nothing I can really identify anything specifically to. The rest of that I was just hoping to categorize into one or the other soooo bad...
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That is exactly what therianthropy is like. Therians bear a "family resemblance" to each other. If you think about how vague family resemblances are - yet they're so obvious - you'll have the idea.
I have Howl photos that I display in my office and, usually, when people see them, they assume they're family group photos (taken at a reunion). Fact being, none of use are related by blood - not closely, anyway.
The important things in therianthropy is not what you are but how you relate. I'm disturbed at how focused a lot of people on Therian sites are on themselves with little (apparent) concern for the Therian community as a whole. I feel like I might have some bear tendencies but I rarely ever talk about that because it's sorta trivial to me.
I honestly like Lenowill's answer to the issue. You learn about yourself as you move through life and pay attention to what you do and how you do it. Soul searching, as much as it's touted on the boards, is pretty much worthless. Pay attention to all the soul searching that goes on. Notice how many people that talk so much about it end up deciding that the answers they came up with were wrong and they start "soul searching" again.
I will bet you that a lot of the people that learned all about themselves by meditation will one day, "Grow out of they're phase," and as they sit around in the old folks home, they'll joke about "those days when they thought they were a Werewolf."
In the meantime, all the young Therians that don't know any better and take they're advise about soul searching and meditation will continue to be confused and take that much longer to figure things out. In brief, trying any and everything to get answers is not a good strategy - if you use bad techniques, you get bad results, and then you really do have to start back on square one.
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